There’s a debate simmering as to whether it’s OK for devotees to go for counseling/therapy: “To go, or not to go – THAT is the question?”
One guiding principle that seems to be helpful in answering this question is that in Krishna consciousness we should “accept that which is favorable for our advancement in devotional service, and reject that which is unfavorable*.” Srila Prabhupada also used the phrase, “Somehow or other” become Krishna consciousness**. If getting therapy helps a person to engage more effectively with Krishna consciousness activities, then under this definition that would be OK, otherwise it’s better to steer clear. Activities that are not strictly bhakti, but are supportive of it, are known as “gauna-bhakti.”
Because we don’t have much time to perfect ourselves spiritually so that we can escape this material world (and all the events that have traumatized us!), we should use our time wisely and not waste it in unnecessary material pursuits.
As a side note, I thought that it might be useful to list some of the difficulties that devotees go to therapy to try to deal with:
- Panic attacks (so bad that they can hardly leave their house for more than 3 minutes)
- Horrific nightmares every night for years
- Addictions (sex, intoxication, food, etc.)
- Suicidal tendencies
- Depression (so bad that they can’t get out of bed)
- Chronic pain
- Chronic fatigue
- ADHD (Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder – i.e. they can’t sit still or concentrate)
- Severe phobias
Anyone who has lived with challenges like these knows how formidable it can be to even deal with everyday practical needs, what to speak of trying to practice and develop spiritual life. Certainly, chanting Hare Krishna is the ultimate cure for all evils in this world. However, someone with this level of difficulty is often unable to concentrate on (or even practice) devotional service because the mind (and body) is too preoccupied with the pain and anxiety that they are experiencing.
This has been a difficult post to write, since I know that there are strong feelings held on both sides if the debate. I hope (and pray) that devotees will forgive me if I have upset them by anything that I have said here. Comments please!
*Nectar of Devotion, Rupa Goswami
**Rupa Goswami
